17 Things That Are Normal in Europe That Americans May Find Distressing 

Traveling to Europe can feel like stepping into a whole new world—one filled with cobblestone streets, centuries-old architecture, and… some customs that leave Americans scratching their heads. What’s perfectly ordinary over there can sometimes be downright unsettling for visitors from the States.

Here are 17 things that Europeans consider completely normal, but might make Americans do a double take.

No Free Water at Restaurants

In most of Europe, don’t expect a tall glass of ice water to appear magically if you ask for water at a restaurant. Many places serve only bottled water, and you’ll have to specify if you want it still or sparkling. Even when tap water is available, some restaurants will charge you for it. Americans, used to free refills and ice-cold beverages, often find this baffling and annoying.

Public Restrooms Often Cost Money

Need to use the bathroom while out and about? In many European cities, you’ll need to pay a small fee to access a public restroom. Whether it’s a standalone toilet or a bathroom in a train station, expect to dig out some coins or use a contactless card. While this practice helps keep facilities clean and well-maintained, it can be frustrating for Americans who are used to free public bathrooms everywhere.

Stores Close Early

In the U.S., 24/7 convenience is king. In Europe? Not so much. Many stores, including grocery stores, close early in the evening and may not be open at all on Sundays. This stems from both labor laws and a long tradition of preserving work-life balance. While Europeans appreciate the slower pace, Americans might find it inconvenient when they realize they can’t make a midnight snack run or do last-minute shopping on a Sunday.

Minimal Air Conditioning

Europeans and Americans have very different relationships with air conditioning. In the U.S., it’s almost a necessity, blasting ice-cold air in homes, offices, and stores. In Europe, A/C is often weak, nonexistent, or only turned on during extreme heat waves. Many locals believe it’s unhealthy, unnecessary, or simply a waste of energy. Summers can be a sweaty shock for Americans used to escaping the heat indoors.

No Large Coffees or To-Go Cups Everywhere

If you order a coffee in Europe expecting a venti-sized cup to-go, you’re in for a surprise. Coffee culture is different. Many people sit and sip their tiny but strong espresso at a café rather than rushing off with a massive cup. While some places now offer takeout coffee, the portion sizes are smaller, and asking for flavored syrups or excessive cream might earn you a puzzled look.

Trains and Public Transport Over Cars

Americans, especially those from sprawling suburbs, are used to driving everywhere. However, in Europe, public transportation is the go-to for most people. Trains, trams, and buses are efficient, widely used, and often preferable to driving. Owning a car in a big European city is often seen as unnecessary (and expensive, thanks to high gas prices and limited parking). For Americans used to the freedom of their own vehicle, relying on public transit can take some getting used to.

Less Personal Space

Americans cherish their personal space, but in Europe, people tend to stand closer in conversation, squeeze together on public transportation, and don’t shy away from physical contact. In some cultures, like in Spain or Italy, people greet with cheek kisses. This can be unsettling for Americans who are more accustomed to handshakes and a comfortable amount of distance.

Few Ice Cubes, If Any

Europeans don’t share America’s enthusiasm for ice. Order a soda, and you might get a single lonely cube floating in your drink if you’re lucky. Many Europeans believe drinks should be enjoyed at a more natural temperature, while Americans, used to mountains of ice in their beverages, often find this disappointing.

Cash Is Still King in Many Places

Despite the rise of digital payments, many businesses in Europe still prefer cash. In some countries, smaller shops, cafés, and even certain restaurants may refuse credit cards, especially for small purchases. Americans who rely on cards or digital wallets might find themselves in a tough spot when they realize their plastic won’t cut it.

Metric System and Different Date Formats

Trying to measure things in kilometers instead of miles? Checking a date written as “25/12” and realizing it means Christmas? These small but constant differences can be confusing for Americans who have spent their whole lives using different systems. While the metric system is logical, it can be tough to adjust when you’re used to inches, pounds, and Fahrenheit.

Complicated Recycling Rules

Europe takes recycling seriously. In many countries, waste must be meticulously sorted into multiple bins—one for glass, another for plastics, one for compost, and sometimes even separate bins for different types of paper. While this is great for the environment, it can be overwhelming for Americans who are used to tossing everything into a single recycling bin.

Barefoot in the Home—No Shoes Allowed

In many European households, wearing shoes indoors is considered dirty and disrespectful. Guests are expected to remove their shoes upon entering, and in some cases, they might even be given house slippers to wear instead. Americans, who often keep their shoes on inside, might find this practice surprising.

More Reserved Customer Service

If you walk into a European store expecting the bubbly “Hi, how are you?” and constant check-ins from employees, you might be disappointed. Customer service in Europe is often more reserved and efficient rather than overly friendly. To some Americans, this can feel cold, but it’s simply a cultural difference. Employees are there to help when needed, not to chat.

Smoking Is More Common

Smoking is far more prevalent in Europe than in the U.S. While smoking rates are decreasing, it’s still common to see people lighting up at outdoor cafés, train stations, and even inside certain establishments. For Americans accustomed to strict smoking bans, the sight (and smell) of cigarettes everywhere can be overwhelming.

Paying for Bags at Stores

At most European supermarkets, plastic bags aren’t free. Customers are expected to bring their reusable bags or pay a small fee for one. This is part of a larger push for environmental sustainability, but for Americans, it can be a surprise at the checkout counter.

Smaller Living Spaces

Europe’s apartments, hotel rooms, and even appliances tend to be much smaller than their American counterparts. Compact fridges, tiny washing machines, and cozy living spaces are the norm, especially in older buildings. While this makes sense in cities where space is limited, Americans used to sprawling homes and king-sized beds may find it a bit cramped.

Strict Rules About Jaywalking

In many European countries, pedestrians wait for the crosswalk light to turn green, even if there are no cars in sight. Jaywalking is often frowned upon or even punishable by fines. Americans, used to darting across the street whenever they see an opening, might find it odd to see people patiently waiting when the road is completely clear.

Disclaimer: This list is solely the author’s opinion based on research and publicly available information.

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