16 American Habits and Phrases That Are Rude in Other Countries
Traveling all over the world Is a great way to expand your horizons, but it also has a learning curve for cultural etiquette. What’s perfectly normal in the U.S. can feel rude or even offensive in other countries. Inappropriate gestures and misunderstood phrases are just a couple of examples of how minor missteps can have lasting effects. Business or leisure, it doesn’t matter; simply being aware of local customs helps you avoid ending up in those awkward situations and instead promotes good interactions.
With this in mind, here are 16 everyday American habits and phrases that might not play well abroad. It’s time to rethink some of those familiar questions to ensure we are remembered for all the right reasons the next time you are globe-trotting!
Tipping Generously
Tipping is just about a national pastime in the U.S., where you’re expected to leave between 15 and 20 percent for good service.
But in countries such as Japan and South Korea, tipping is seen as an insult, as if you’re saying the server is underpaid or needs charity. Of course, the next time you’re abroad, double-check the local norms before you leave that extra cash.
Saying “How Are You?” as a Greeting
Americans toss out “How are you?” as casually as a “hello.” In Germany or France, though, asking someone how they’re doing implies you are genuinely interested in how they’re doing. Be prepared for a detailed response, or stick to a simple “hello” if you are not up for it.
Eating While Walking
Eating on the go with a sandwich is customary in the States. Dining is almost a sacred affair in Italy or France, not to be scarfed down in the street. Eating while walking is considered disrespectful in many places. Slow down and eat your meal at a café.
Talking Loudly in Public
One thing about Americans is that they are very loud, but in countries like Japan or Finland, speaking loudly can be seen as rude and intrusive. According to studies, 46 percent of Finns value quiet workspaces. So, if you’re abroad, take a page from their book and turn down the volume.
Over-the-Top Compliments
In the U.S., you say things like, ‘Oh my God! I LOVE your shirt!’ or ‘You’re AMAZING!’ However, in cultures like Britain or Sweden, it can appear too enthusiastic.
Brits, exceptionally, like understated compliments. It has been shown that you go a long way with a simple “That’s nice.”
Pointing with Your Finger
Pointing might seem like the most direct or easy route to telling anyone where they need to be. However, pointing with your finger is considered rude in Malaysia and Indonesia. Instead, use your whole hand or gesture to avoid offending anyone.
Hugging Strangers or Acquaintances
Americans adore an excellent hug; it’s their culture. But in places like China and Russia, hugs are just a bit too much and intimate for people unless they’re married. They hold a high value of personal space, and touch is reserved for close family or friends. A safer bet is a handshake or a polite nod.
Refusing Food
In the U.S., if you’re offered food in someone’s home, it’s OK to say, ‘I’m full, no thanks.’ In places such as India or Lebanon, you can’t turn down food; it’s rude and can even insult your host. But it’s polite if you’re not hungry; at least ask to try a small portion.
Using the Thumbs-Up Gesture
In the US, a thumbs-up means you did well, or it’s all good, but in Iran, Greece, and other countries, it’s an obscene gesture that equates to flipping off. Before giving that thumbs-up abroad, ensure it doesn’t get misinterpreted!
Cutting to the Chase
Among Americans, directness is well known, and they tend to go straight to the point in their conversations. However, this is considered rude in other cultures like Japan and Mexico. In these countries, people are big on building relationships before they start business conversations.
Saying “No” Directly
In India or Thailand, you can’t be blunt and just say “NO,” but Americans have no problem with that. When people in these cultures are more indirect, it’s for the sake of saving face, and anything from a soft refusal to avoidance is considered to be more polite.
Making Eye Contact
In the U.S., maintaining eye contact shows confidence and trustworthiness. However, in South Korea and China, looking someone in the eye for too long can be seen as aggressive or confrontational in men speaking to older people or their superiors.
Laughing with Your Mouth Open
For the most part, Americans laugh freely and openly, but in other places where modesty and restraint are valued—such as Japan, publicly laughing loudly with your mouth wide open is deemed bad manners. The way to go in such places is to keep your laughter demure and mindful.
Standing Too Close
Here in the U.S., personal space bubbles might be smaller than in places like Saudi Arabia or Brazil, where people stand much further during conversation.
In England or Australia, for example, it is not okay to stand too close since it makes people feel uncomfortable. When you are out of the country, give people more space to breathe.
Interrupting People‘s Speech
Cutting in during a conversation to make a point isn’t the worst thing in American culture, definitely not in fast-paced environments.
In countries like Finland or Japan, interrupting is extremely rude. Whenever you feel like speaking, it doesn’t matter if you are anxious to contribute; wait for your turn.
Using Slang or Idioms
Americans are fond of putting the fun into conversation with ‘Break a leg’ or ‘It’s raining cats and dogs,’ but these colorfully interpretable idiomatic expressions can confuse and even concern in other parts of the world. For example, in the U.S., if you say ‘break a leg,’ it’s because you want that person to have good luck. A non-native English speaker could take this so literally that they get confused or anxious. Avoiding these expressions and using simple, straightforward language when abroad is better.
You should know what you might say or do when walking into unknown cultural terrain. Next time you pack your bags for an international trip, remember these habits and phrases, and you may well be a more considerate and, indeed, a more welcome visitor. After all, every culture has its quirks, and you must work to navigate them respectfully.
Disclaimer- This list is solely the author’s opinion based on research and publicly available information.
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